Venue...BOOKED! A rare post on our actual wedding.

So El Fiance and I have finally booked our venue. As I've mentioned, we were originally planning to do a ranch wedding in San Luis Obispo, but cost and logistics didn't end up making sense for what we could afford or what we wanted--proximity to bars for after-party, no portable toilets, an open bar where we could purchase the alcohol, etc etc. We still wanted to have a mini-destination from where we live, the San Francisco Bay Area, so we decided on Santa Barbara, where my fiance went to college. Santa Barbara is awesome, and like many beautiful places, expensive.

We narrowed it down to three places within our budget and decided on Rockwood Women's Club. Here's our space:

I love the venue for so many reasons: it's beautiful, close to downtown Santa Barbara, we can have the ceremony on the patio and then convert it into a lounge space for the reception with TWO fireplaces, the dance floor space is huge, they have FREE overnight parking and Sue, my contact, is a doll. It's hard to get a feel for how large and lovely the venue is from the pictures, but it's wonderfully spacious and airy. It was built in the 1920's and has that Santa Barbara, Spanish style feel. My only problem is I think I suffer from over-blog-itis. I hadn't originally envisioned a space so...classy, I guess. When I came up with words to describe my overall vision, I used adjectives like, rustic, sweet, charming, home-spun, fun. The boards, Amelie's Carnival Wedding, Spanish Vintage, and Rustic Brown and White, were originally for us. Of course, I plan on keeping the fun, but rustic works a little better for a barn than an indoor space with a red-draped stage and iron chandeliers.

I love vintage touches, and want to keep it closer to casual than formal. I'm thinking of a base palette of shades of brown, (darker wood chairs--not chiavari because we can't afford them, burlap, nude <--my favorite) and shades of white, (ivory, cream), and maybe some other accents like pale blush or yellow. Fortunately, they don't allow or need anything on the walls. There are worse existential dilemmas to have, but I'm just not sure where to go decor/theme/design-wise. I know I want to DIY as much as is possible/reasonable, keep the florals to a minimum, maybe even do some loose arrangements with wholesale flowers, but what should I do for centerpieces? Vintage birdcages and books? Lanterns? Small frames? Indecision ack!

So, blog-world, any ideas for me? :)

Classic Cocktails and Retro Style: A Mad Men Inspired Wedding Board

I haven't caught an entire episode of AMC's "Mad Men" but I've seen enough to know I love the style and feel of the show. Refer back to my first post for a little on my dreams of having 60's style cocktail parties every weekend. Although I first envisioned a board in black, white, and red, along the lines of how I'd imagine the Rat Pack designing a wedding, I was drawn to the cheeky, fun palette of blue and orange mixed in. Alongside my secret inner RenFaire nerd, and my steampunk cosplay geek, there resides a girl who dresses like Donna Reed and drinks Old-Fashioneds while baking things in Jello moulds. This is her board. P.S. That awesome wedding dress? Only $595 by Dolly Couture!

Mood: Retro cocktail party

Artifacts of Inspiration: "Mad Men", classic cars, geometric design, retro cocktails, one button suits, Jackie Kennedy

Color Palette: Blue and orange against a backdrop of black and white

The Credits, Deets, and Maybe Where to Buy Them:

The Beverlywood by Dolly Couture, Cigar Bar by Sarah Q Photography via Wedding Chicks, Turquoise Linen Tiffany Dress by Etsy artist digforvictory, Mad Men Inspired Save the Date by Wedding Chicks, Martini Glass via Paper Doll M, Birdcage Veil via Brides.com, Couple in Classic 60's car by Chicago Illinois Wedding Photography, Blue and Orange Retro Cake by Jason McGrew via Merriment Events, Mad Men Suit by Brooks Brothers via Make Pretend

Soft and Sweet: A Blush Pink and Gray Wedding

Feminine, but not girly, subdued but eye-catching, I love the combination of pale pink and gray. I love how the modern, almost industrial feel of slate gray is balanced by the vintage softness of blush.

Mood: Intimate and sweet, personal touches meets elegant styling

Color Palette: Palest pink and dove gray

The Credits, Deets, and Maybe Where to Buy Them:

Pink and Gray Ring Pillow by Etsy Seller TheBloomingSouth, Gorgeously Textured Cake by Magpies Bakery, Gray Suit and Pink Tie by Shelly from Union Photography via Snippet and Ink, Bouquet and Chair by Simply Bloom Photography via Elizabeth Anne Designs, Chanel Shoes and Gray Couch by Elizabeth Messina via The Sweetest Occasion, Pink Pleated Ruffle Flower Girl Dress by Wedding Gowns Shop, Centerpiece and Table Number by Aaron Delesie via Ruffledblog, Paper Straws and Drink Stirrers by Amanda Wilcher via Style Me Pretty, Gray Bridesmaid Dresses with Pink Sashes by Bret Cole via Once Wed

High Glamor Inspiration: A Black and Gold Wedding

I love gooooold! As much as sweet, rustic weddings hold a special place in my heart, I can't help but love the kind of wedding that oozes glamor and drama, and dare I say, even a little sexy. This isn't just a party--it's the event of the year. Oddly enough, I don't think it needs to break the bank. Some wooden candle holders spray painted glossy black and shimmery gold, a few glass centerpieces wrapped in black tulle, some feathers, and some gold and black frames, and voila! You have yourself a wedding with more drama and class than Lauren Bacall.

Mood: Glamorous evening fete

Artifacts of Inspiration: Vintage brooches, black feathers, gold plate, texture, Old Hollywood meets modern aesthetic

The Credits, Deets, and Maybe Where to Buy Them:

Candle Centerpieces by Angela Renee Photography via Elizabeth Anne Designs, Black J. Crew Bridesmaid Dress via Bridefinds.com, Gold Tray by One and Only Paris Photography via Ruffledblog, Gold Badgley Mischkas via Omwall.com, Birdcage, Invitation, and Mercury Glass by Aruna B. Photography and Style Me Pretty via weddingsunveiled.blogspot.com, Black tux and yellow bout by Catherine Guidry Photography via Style Me Pretty, Black and Gold Brooch Bouquet by Ewan Phelan via Green Wedding Shoes, Gold Plate by Amy Nixon Events via Weddingwire, Gold Chiavari Chair by Mimmo & Naz via Caketress

A Little Something Extra:

That brooch bouquet is awesome (and eco-friendly!). I found another black and gold vintage brooch bouquet by Etsy artist BoxFairy83. You can purchase it here.

If you're into more traditional florals, or just want lots of bling, you could also accessorize with this amazing necklace from Etsy artist talulabelles. Click here to purchase.

Not feeling black bridesmaid dresses? J. Crew also offers these pretty little numbers in a muted gold here.

Yellow and Gray Wedding: A Modern, Fun Inspiration Board

Happy, fun, fresh. These are all adjectives that spring to mind when I think of the color yellow. Although I think a yellow and gray palette could fit many different types of weddings: indoor/outdoor, traditional, rustic, vintage, a modern aesthetic with clean lines and a fresh, whimsical appeal is what spoke to me today.

Mood: Sipping lemonade after you've exhausted yourself laughing.

Color Palette: Lemon yellow and pewter gray

The Credits, Deets, and Maybe Where to Buy Them:

Bridesmaids in Yellow and Gray by Chloe Murdoch for Mike Larson Photography via Style Me Pretty, Gray Bridesmaid Dress via Once Wed, Yellow and Gray Pinwheels by Etsy Seller ElizabethSt, Yellow Tie and Gray Vested Groom by Rebekah Westover Photography via Duet Letterpress, Yellow and Gray Clutch by Etsy Seller PaperFlora, Yellow and Gray Banner by Etsy Seller liddabits, Balsa Wood and Billy Ball Centerpiece via BridalHood.blogspot.com, Sweet Little Daisies Cake via Martha Stewart Weddings, Wedding Couple and Yellow Balloon by Ampersand Studios via Soiree Boise